$re = '/(?:\'[^\']*\'|"[^"]*"|(\((?:[^()]++|(?1))*\))|[^\'",])+/m';
$str = 'lorem ipsum=123,delor=\'1,456\',sit="123,456",amet=xxx(2,3),"consectetur adipiscing elit, sed do eiusmod tempor incididunt ut labore et dolore magna aliqua."';
preg_match_all($re, $str, $matches, PREG_SET_ORDER, 0);
// Print the entire match result
var_dump($matches);
Please keep in mind that these code samples are automatically generated and are not guaranteed to work. If you find any syntax errors, feel free to submit a bug report. For a full regex reference for PHP, please visit: http://php.net/manual/en/ref.pcre.php